"Loneliness is a condition of human life, an experience of being human which enables the individual to sustain, extend, and deepen his humanity. Man is ultimately and forever lonely whether his loneliness is the exquisite pain of the individual living in isolation or illness, the sense of absence caused by a loved one's death, or the piercing joy experienced in triumphant creation. I believe it is necessary for every person to recognize his loneliness, to become intensely aware that, ultimately, in every fibre of his being, man is alone - terribly, utterly alone" - Clark Moustakas (Loneliness, p. ix)
I must agree with this statement. All but the last sentence, anyway. We are alone. Though we may share our hearts and our very lives with another, or several others, at the end of the day, we are left alone to ourselves. I'm sure all of us have experienced the feeling of being 'lost in a crowd.' The sense of being alone, even though you're in a room filled with other people. Could it be that all these other people are feeling the same loneliness? I believe so. We are created to need companionship, in one form or another. Genesis 2:18 says: The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." We weren't made to be alone, or to be lonely. God created us for community. When we struggle with the lack of community, it leaves a deep void in our inner man. We may try to fill this void with other things, or even with other people. That's not to say that these are bad things. But nothing can perfectly fill the void in our hearts like the love of God, through our relationship with Jesus. Nothing else can even compare to this great love. Left to our own devices, we are doomed to a life of searching for something greater. Always seeking, never finding what satisfies. God loves family. He loves relationship. He is a very personal, one-on-one being, and we are created in His image. This may sound paradoxical given that His love is also broad enough to fill the void simultaneously in every other person in the earth. But that is who God is. He doesn't have to play by our rules. We don't have to understand Him to make Him a reality. In fact, if we could understand Him, there would be no reason for us to follow Him; no reason for us to need Him. Once we get to the point of figuring something out, it becomes limited. We unlock all its mysteries. We become bigger than it, in a sense. Its value lessens due to the fact that we have have reduced it to something so easily contained within the confines of our limited intelligence. There is no respect for something of this nature. Thank God He is bigger than that! He is uncontainable, uncontrollable, undeniable, unimaginable. We believe, in our limitation, that we can define God, the Creator and definer of everything in existence. God is unlimited, and we are very limited, even incapable of realizing just how limited we are. Psalm 139 illustrates this particularly well, along with the immeasurable love that God has toward each one of us.
Romans 11:34 For who has known the mind of the Lord, or who became his counselor?
1 Corinthians 2:16 For who has known the mind of the Lord? But we have the mind of Christ.
If you've spent more than five minutes with me, in conversation, or in reading my words, you have noticed that I sometimes ramble on endless tangents. That being said, What does any of this have to do with being lonely? Well, to sum it all up, based on what I have already written, we are not meant to be lonely. But we all have felt this way. Some of us may be feeling this right now. Elijah felt this way immediately following one of his strongest spiritual victories. We are all vulnerable to loneliness. To some of us, it is a very real, very constant companion. What a terrible thing, only to be comforted by your own loneliness. God has Himself felt this loneliness; that's the reason He created us. So He would have someone to love, and someone who would willingly love Him in return. We love Him because He first loved us. But loneliness, as I mentioned, is very real. It is in these times that we grow weak; in these times that we must rely on God even more than usual. God will never leave us lonely. He will be our constant Comforter, Companion, and best Friend. But we must let Him be these things in our lives. He will not force Himself upon us. He will not make us love Him. He wants us to come to Him in ourselves. In our desperation. In our loneliness. He will be our comfort and our strength. He loves us immeasurably. Let us allow Him to fill that void in our hearts, as only He can. We were made with an innate need to be loved, to be part of someone, something greater than ourselves. Greater than anything this world can offer. We were not made to be lonely. We were made to be loved.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Relevance - Revealed
I was just listening to this cd, and realized that so many of the things I'm dealing with right now are conveniently and accurately expressed within its songs. This is an excerpt from one of these songs. Check out How Can We Be Silent by BarlowGirl.
"Keep Quiet" - BarlowGirl -
All the things I've sacrificed, so that I could bring You to this world. I want them to see You in me. But Your name just keeps them far from me. So I'll keep quiet. Let's hope they see I'm different.
Jesus, Jesus, why is Your name so offensive? Why are we so scared to tell this world You've saved us? When all of the hope of the world is in Your name, why are we so scared to say "Jesus"?
If I avoid to speak Your name, tell me would You do the same to me? If relevance becomes my goal, will I lose You to its hold?
I'm sorry I cared about my name more than Yours. I'm so sorry. How could I hide You anymore...
But if I keep quiet - They'll never see I'm different...
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In dealing with our relevance in this world, and in whatever ministry we're called to, we must be sure to keep our focus on Jesus, the source of our strength. We can be doing so many things for God that we forget about doing them with God. It is so easy to get caught up in the busyness we feel obligated to manage, that we can lose touch with Him. Our relationship with Jesus must be paramount in our lives. He must always be front and center in our focus. He must always have the best seat in the house of our hearts. But not just in our hearts. He must have total control of our entire lives. Surrendering that control is the hardest part, as we are perfectly flawed with the in-born desire to control the world around us, and especially in us. In order to achieve all the great things God has promised us, or called us to, we have to surrender everything in our being to His perfect will. Only in this surrender we will ever find any semblance of control over these things. I know this doesn't make sense by the world's thinking, but we are not of this world. Our minds are being transformed and renewed through our relationship with Jesus Christ. In order for us to live in this transformation, to have the 'mind of Christ,' we have to have a serious relationship with Him. Our relationship with Christ must be the only thing we could never go without, because, in reality, it is the only thing that is truly relevant. All our other relationships, our families, our careers, ministries, whatever. Everything else is irrelevant in the light of Christ. I'm not saying these things are unimportant, because God has richly blessed us with these people, opportunities, and things. But He is a jealous God. He will not settle for second place. He wants us to live a life relevant, to make a difference for Him in this world; to share the love that He has so graciously poured out on us... This is a big challenge, but thankfully we are not left to our own strength in this. God has promised to never leave or forsake us. If He has given us a mission, He will walk us through it. All He wants from us is a willing heart, submitted to His will, which is the essence of His love. God will get His work done with or without us. But He has called us out by name. It's pretty obvious that He wants to do this with us. His love draws us to Him. He just wants us to love Him in return, with everything we are. He wants us to LIVE LOVE.
"Keep Quiet" - BarlowGirl -
All the things I've sacrificed, so that I could bring You to this world. I want them to see You in me. But Your name just keeps them far from me. So I'll keep quiet. Let's hope they see I'm different.
Jesus, Jesus, why is Your name so offensive? Why are we so scared to tell this world You've saved us? When all of the hope of the world is in Your name, why are we so scared to say "Jesus"?
If I avoid to speak Your name, tell me would You do the same to me? If relevance becomes my goal, will I lose You to its hold?
I'm sorry I cared about my name more than Yours. I'm so sorry. How could I hide You anymore...
But if I keep quiet - They'll never see I'm different...
_________________________________________________________
In dealing with our relevance in this world, and in whatever ministry we're called to, we must be sure to keep our focus on Jesus, the source of our strength. We can be doing so many things for God that we forget about doing them with God. It is so easy to get caught up in the busyness we feel obligated to manage, that we can lose touch with Him. Our relationship with Jesus must be paramount in our lives. He must always be front and center in our focus. He must always have the best seat in the house of our hearts. But not just in our hearts. He must have total control of our entire lives. Surrendering that control is the hardest part, as we are perfectly flawed with the in-born desire to control the world around us, and especially in us. In order to achieve all the great things God has promised us, or called us to, we have to surrender everything in our being to His perfect will. Only in this surrender we will ever find any semblance of control over these things. I know this doesn't make sense by the world's thinking, but we are not of this world. Our minds are being transformed and renewed through our relationship with Jesus Christ. In order for us to live in this transformation, to have the 'mind of Christ,' we have to have a serious relationship with Him. Our relationship with Christ must be the only thing we could never go without, because, in reality, it is the only thing that is truly relevant. All our other relationships, our families, our careers, ministries, whatever. Everything else is irrelevant in the light of Christ. I'm not saying these things are unimportant, because God has richly blessed us with these people, opportunities, and things. But He is a jealous God. He will not settle for second place. He wants us to live a life relevant, to make a difference for Him in this world; to share the love that He has so graciously poured out on us... This is a big challenge, but thankfully we are not left to our own strength in this. God has promised to never leave or forsake us. If He has given us a mission, He will walk us through it. All He wants from us is a willing heart, submitted to His will, which is the essence of His love. God will get His work done with or without us. But He has called us out by name. It's pretty obvious that He wants to do this with us. His love draws us to Him. He just wants us to love Him in return, with everything we are. He wants us to LIVE LOVE.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
rELevant - part 2 - RUNN
RUNN - Rise Up. Now or Never
The truth is painful to take in sometimes, especially when it is uncomfortable or inconvenient. But ir is there, nonetheless. It is real. And we have to come face to face whit it every day in one form or another. This is where it gets uncomfortable, when we can non loner hide blindly from it; when our 'ignorance is bliss' facade is torn away, and the harsh reality is revealed. It is then that we face a decision. What will we do with this new-found truth? One way or another, we must make a decision. We must decide to run, even if we remain still. We will run as a result of this revelation. But that is not the decision we face. We must decide which way to run. Will we run from the truth, ignoring it in hopes that it will go away? Or will we run with the truth? Will we embrace it wholeheartedly, doing everything in our power to correct the injustice around us? Will we be more than mere watchmen, actually rising to the occasion in a united effort to help? Let us then choose to run with this truth. Let us reach out to those whose circumstances, whatever they may be, have left them in a less-than-fortunate state. Everyone can somehow help, and everyone may some day need that same help. Let us run together. Alone we are hopeless, but together we will make a difference. NOW IS DAY ONE. ONE DAY IS NOW. Let us no longer be content in our personal space. Let us throw aside our comfort zones and pick up some sacrifice in place. Don't allow this suffering to continue on your watch by simply ignoring it. Don't think someone else will take care of this need. Don't say you would love to help, but can't find the time. Or the money. Or whatever. God is not concerned with those things. He only wants us to have a heart willing to help. Willing to put our own agendas on the back burner for the benefit of someone else. Jesus said "Whenever you do these things to the least of these, you do them unto me." Remember the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." These aren't just happy little sayings, or fortune-cookie proverbs. This is real life, the way it is supposed to be lived. If we don't rise up, who will? Jesus also said "To whom much is given, much is expected." Remember the parable of the talents? We should be striving to be the one who was given most. Not because we want more than our fair share from God, and not because we expect a greater reward. We should want to live this way because of what Jesus did for us, and because the love of God compels us so. Many times I've heard 'I'll get around to it,' or 'One day I'll do something.' I am telling you that if you have that sort of mentality, you'll never get anything done. 'One day' will never get here. And I'm not saying any of this to discourage you. Rather, I'm trying to share this same passion and burden that God has placed in my heart with those of you who are willing and ready. The day you're looking for is not lurking off somewhere in the distant future. It is right in front of your very eyes. ONE DAY IS NOW. This is the time when a difference will be made. Let us make a difference. Starting today, ask yourself 'What can I do to help someone less fortunate than me?' or 'How can I be a part of this ministry to help make a difference in my community?' or even better, ask God what He would have you do. Pray on this. Meditate over it. Seek God's will, and then do what you can to make it happen. Pray for us, that we may be focused and centered in God's will, at the very least. This is not something one person can take on alone. That is not what God expects. He does, however, expect us to follow His command to love, in every form. He does expect us to put petty differences aside and unite in brotherly love. And He does expect us to share this love with the people around us, whether they're just across the street or just across the globe. We are the people of God. God is love. Therefore, we are to be people of love. The time is here. The time is right. ONE DAY IS NOW, and NOW IS DAY ONE. Let us make a difference. Let us make the world a better place. Let us start today... God bless...
The truth is painful to take in sometimes, especially when it is uncomfortable or inconvenient. But ir is there, nonetheless. It is real. And we have to come face to face whit it every day in one form or another. This is where it gets uncomfortable, when we can non loner hide blindly from it; when our 'ignorance is bliss' facade is torn away, and the harsh reality is revealed. It is then that we face a decision. What will we do with this new-found truth? One way or another, we must make a decision. We must decide to run, even if we remain still. We will run as a result of this revelation. But that is not the decision we face. We must decide which way to run. Will we run from the truth, ignoring it in hopes that it will go away? Or will we run with the truth? Will we embrace it wholeheartedly, doing everything in our power to correct the injustice around us? Will we be more than mere watchmen, actually rising to the occasion in a united effort to help? Let us then choose to run with this truth. Let us reach out to those whose circumstances, whatever they may be, have left them in a less-than-fortunate state. Everyone can somehow help, and everyone may some day need that same help. Let us run together. Alone we are hopeless, but together we will make a difference. NOW IS DAY ONE. ONE DAY IS NOW. Let us no longer be content in our personal space. Let us throw aside our comfort zones and pick up some sacrifice in place. Don't allow this suffering to continue on your watch by simply ignoring it. Don't think someone else will take care of this need. Don't say you would love to help, but can't find the time. Or the money. Or whatever. God is not concerned with those things. He only wants us to have a heart willing to help. Willing to put our own agendas on the back burner for the benefit of someone else. Jesus said "Whenever you do these things to the least of these, you do them unto me." Remember the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." These aren't just happy little sayings, or fortune-cookie proverbs. This is real life, the way it is supposed to be lived. If we don't rise up, who will? Jesus also said "To whom much is given, much is expected." Remember the parable of the talents? We should be striving to be the one who was given most. Not because we want more than our fair share from God, and not because we expect a greater reward. We should want to live this way because of what Jesus did for us, and because the love of God compels us so. Many times I've heard 'I'll get around to it,' or 'One day I'll do something.' I am telling you that if you have that sort of mentality, you'll never get anything done. 'One day' will never get here. And I'm not saying any of this to discourage you. Rather, I'm trying to share this same passion and burden that God has placed in my heart with those of you who are willing and ready. The day you're looking for is not lurking off somewhere in the distant future. It is right in front of your very eyes. ONE DAY IS NOW. This is the time when a difference will be made. Let us make a difference. Starting today, ask yourself 'What can I do to help someone less fortunate than me?' or 'How can I be a part of this ministry to help make a difference in my community?' or even better, ask God what He would have you do. Pray on this. Meditate over it. Seek God's will, and then do what you can to make it happen. Pray for us, that we may be focused and centered in God's will, at the very least. This is not something one person can take on alone. That is not what God expects. He does, however, expect us to follow His command to love, in every form. He does expect us to put petty differences aside and unite in brotherly love. And He does expect us to share this love with the people around us, whether they're just across the street or just across the globe. We are the people of God. God is love. Therefore, we are to be people of love. The time is here. The time is right. ONE DAY IS NOW, and NOW IS DAY ONE. Let us make a difference. Let us make the world a better place. Let us start today... God bless...
Conversations With God - Part 2 - Response
(You have chased me down o God. You have cornered me on every side. You say to me):
I will love you. Whether you want it or not. Whether you like it or not. Whether you deserve it or not.I will love you because I AM love. My love is perfect.Forever. For YOU. Who are you, o man, to stand in the way of my love? How can you, whom I've created with my hands, deny me? How can you deny my nature? I created nature. From nothing, everything came to be, by the words of my mouth. All I have made is made for you. All my creation pales in comparison to you, the one I love. You are my favored creation. I WILL love you. I AM love... Know me... Before anything was, I AM.
I will love you. Whether you want it or not. Whether you like it or not. Whether you deserve it or not.I will love you because I AM love. My love is perfect.Forever. For YOU. Who are you, o man, to stand in the way of my love? How can you, whom I've created with my hands, deny me? How can you deny my nature? I created nature. From nothing, everything came to be, by the words of my mouth. All I have made is made for you. All my creation pales in comparison to you, the one I love. You are my favored creation. I WILL love you. I AM love... Know me... Before anything was, I AM.
Conversations With God - Part 1 - Call
my soul thirsts for You all the day long. how endless is Your love for me. you pursue me like a fire. though i run You are in front of me. when i turn to flee Youare behind me. You surround me on all sides. though i chase You with my whole being, You are already there. my heart longs for Your presence. i want to dwell in the secret place of Your heart. surround me, o God. You are the Holy of Holies. all praise be to You forever. what can contain You? shall a temple of earth built by the hands of men? can the creation build a cage for his Creator? You are uncontainable. This is Your love. So as Your love is, You remain also. perfect. fearless. endless. forever is Your love for me o God. what choice do i have but to love You? even in the shadow of death i will praise You. You are holy. You are righteous and just. Your love pursues me restlessly, with a passion the world, nay, all of creation cannot contain. forever is Your love for me o God.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Random Thoughts On Self-Awareness
(These thoughts are not entirely my own. I did think of them, and from that it's obvious that they are my thoughts. But the basis for these thoughts comes from a character in a book I'm trying to write. I just thought it would make for some interesting reading. Enjoy.)
I don’t think I’m a very religious man, by conventional terms. No… You know what? Never mind that. I am a very religious man. I always have been. Even though I don’t prescribe to a certain set of beliefs… Wrong again… I do have certain beliefs that are at the very core of me. Beliefs that are essentially inseparable from who I am. And these core beliefs govern my every action; my every thought, even. For what is action but thought propelled by thought? And what is thought but anticipation of the outcome of an action? Of course not every thought can be said to have a resulting action. Some thoughts are just thoughts. But every thought has the potential to become an action, thus becoming a kinetic energy. A mini-lesson in Elementary Physics, if you will. Certain expectations can be made of the resulting effects of our decision-making, based on our knowledge of similar past decisions. This is a learning process ingrained in, no, entrusted to us at birth. We make a decision. We see the result. We make a different decision. We see a different result. It’s almost as if God were giving us a little teaser into the future. What a precious gift! But who among us has ever thought such thoughts? It’s only been since my awakening that I even entertain such thoughts as this. I find them new and fascinating. I take joy in the fact that I am somehow intrigued by the menial, often overlooked thoughts that we all have every day. If only we could all have such an awakening. Except for the killing and the memory loss and the never-having-had-a-life-to-call-my-own parts, of course. I guess we all have our own little story. I just hope everyone else's is easier to tell. Nevertheless, we have all participated in more than our share of evil, whether willingly, unwillingly, or even unknowingly. None of us is perfect. None of us ever can be. None of us is right in our self…
Self… That’s another one of those things I’ve recently become terribly aware of. In fact, I can’t escape from this awareness. It chases me down tirelessly, like a Bloodhound on the scent of a murderer. Such a fitting analogy makes me laugh at myself a little… Is this a mild schizophrenia, or simply gross humor? It is this same self-awareness is also responsible for the guilt I constantly feel. Guilt is a feeling, sometimes a thought. But it is one that requires action nonetheless. From this requirement stem a few options, only one of which I can choose. Of these options, the one I choose should ultimately reflect my religious beliefs and/or values. And since these same values are the blueprint for my decision-making life, the unwavering moral code I live by, one could suggest that the decision has already been made, even before the former action that required a decision ever took place. Basically, my past directs my future. It’s a vicious cycle of perpetual tail-chasing, hoping that someday, somehow the head can look back at the tail and laugh at where it has been. The paradox of the matter is simply that the head could never turn to look at the tail because the tail is always outrunning head. Even though the head is the one with the decision-making power, it is constantly at the whim of the tail, in a relentless battle of stubborn will and blind ambition versus the faithful follower of cause and effect.
The point I’m trying to make is, simply, in order to break free from the past and the evils that beset us, we must first open our eyes to the very same thing we’re running from. Learn from the past. Take everything you can get from it, to be used to your advantage at an appropriate time. Learn all you can about all you are, and then completely turn your back to it. The momentum of your past should be an effective enough instrument for its own self-destruction. To defeat your enemy, you must know your enemy. To know your enemy, you must know yourself. Let the very weapons that the enemy fashioned against you be used to his own destruction. In this way, the apprentice becomes the master in order to defeat the master, to become his own master. I’m not advocating any sort of self-mutilation or suicidal behavior. In fact, that would be completely off target from what I’m really trying to say… Let nothing surprise you but the lack of surprise… But who am I to talk? I’m only talking to myself, after all.
(As I mentioned before, these are character thoughts, not necessarily my own. The thought process is my own, but the thoughts themselves are coming from the mind of a fictional character. One with a very questionable moral history, filled with violence and death. Ultimately it's the same story we all tell. It's just fabricated in such a way as to be captivating, and hopefully, inspiring in the end. God bless.).
I don’t think I’m a very religious man, by conventional terms. No… You know what? Never mind that. I am a very religious man. I always have been. Even though I don’t prescribe to a certain set of beliefs… Wrong again… I do have certain beliefs that are at the very core of me. Beliefs that are essentially inseparable from who I am. And these core beliefs govern my every action; my every thought, even. For what is action but thought propelled by thought? And what is thought but anticipation of the outcome of an action? Of course not every thought can be said to have a resulting action. Some thoughts are just thoughts. But every thought has the potential to become an action, thus becoming a kinetic energy. A mini-lesson in Elementary Physics, if you will. Certain expectations can be made of the resulting effects of our decision-making, based on our knowledge of similar past decisions. This is a learning process ingrained in, no, entrusted to us at birth. We make a decision. We see the result. We make a different decision. We see a different result. It’s almost as if God were giving us a little teaser into the future. What a precious gift! But who among us has ever thought such thoughts? It’s only been since my awakening that I even entertain such thoughts as this. I find them new and fascinating. I take joy in the fact that I am somehow intrigued by the menial, often overlooked thoughts that we all have every day. If only we could all have such an awakening. Except for the killing and the memory loss and the never-having-had-a-life-to-call-my-own parts, of course. I guess we all have our own little story. I just hope everyone else's is easier to tell. Nevertheless, we have all participated in more than our share of evil, whether willingly, unwillingly, or even unknowingly. None of us is perfect. None of us ever can be. None of us is right in our self…
Self… That’s another one of those things I’ve recently become terribly aware of. In fact, I can’t escape from this awareness. It chases me down tirelessly, like a Bloodhound on the scent of a murderer. Such a fitting analogy makes me laugh at myself a little… Is this a mild schizophrenia, or simply gross humor? It is this same self-awareness is also responsible for the guilt I constantly feel. Guilt is a feeling, sometimes a thought. But it is one that requires action nonetheless. From this requirement stem a few options, only one of which I can choose. Of these options, the one I choose should ultimately reflect my religious beliefs and/or values. And since these same values are the blueprint for my decision-making life, the unwavering moral code I live by, one could suggest that the decision has already been made, even before the former action that required a decision ever took place. Basically, my past directs my future. It’s a vicious cycle of perpetual tail-chasing, hoping that someday, somehow the head can look back at the tail and laugh at where it has been. The paradox of the matter is simply that the head could never turn to look at the tail because the tail is always outrunning head. Even though the head is the one with the decision-making power, it is constantly at the whim of the tail, in a relentless battle of stubborn will and blind ambition versus the faithful follower of cause and effect.
The point I’m trying to make is, simply, in order to break free from the past and the evils that beset us, we must first open our eyes to the very same thing we’re running from. Learn from the past. Take everything you can get from it, to be used to your advantage at an appropriate time. Learn all you can about all you are, and then completely turn your back to it. The momentum of your past should be an effective enough instrument for its own self-destruction. To defeat your enemy, you must know your enemy. To know your enemy, you must know yourself. Let the very weapons that the enemy fashioned against you be used to his own destruction. In this way, the apprentice becomes the master in order to defeat the master, to become his own master. I’m not advocating any sort of self-mutilation or suicidal behavior. In fact, that would be completely off target from what I’m really trying to say… Let nothing surprise you but the lack of surprise… But who am I to talk? I’m only talking to myself, after all.
(As I mentioned before, these are character thoughts, not necessarily my own. The thought process is my own, but the thoughts themselves are coming from the mind of a fictional character. One with a very questionable moral history, filled with violence and death. Ultimately it's the same story we all tell. It's just fabricated in such a way as to be captivating, and hopefully, inspiring in the end. God bless.).
Thursday, October 8, 2009
rELevant - part 1
relevant:
a: having significant and demonstrable bearing on the matter at hand
b : affording evidence tending to prove or disprove the matter at issue or under discussion
c : having social relevance
similar: crucial to a matter, having a striking appropriateness and pertinence, both to the point and opportune
one question constantly presenting itself to me is 'am i relevant?' i'm not asking this from a hopeless, depressed, nobody-loves-me state. those questions are, in themselves, irrelevant. there is no way to truly achieve a sense of identity, of meaning, outside of Christ. HE is the only thing/one who is ALWAYS relevant. we are lost and hopeless without His presence in our lives. But He has made a way for us to have a meaning and a purpose. to be relevant in this world... making a difference that matters now. a difference that will still matter in generations to come. most people who know me will probably agree with my saying that i've never been the most out-spoken, go-getter kind of guy. in fact, i'm usually the one chosen last, the last to raise my voice; and when i do speak, it's usually folllowed by a 'what?' or 'i can't hear you. talk louder.' and it could be for this very reason, although i'm quite sure there are many others, that i've been feeling such a burden on my heart lately as to the relevance i'm living.
as many of those close to me can attest, i have felt a strong calling into a ministry, particularly the worship leader/ music evangelistic sort. i've been feeling this way for the better part of a year now, so i know it's not a 'phase' sort of thing. most people also know that i'm not usually one to 'lead' anything, and especially in front of a crowd and a microphone... the thought of it used to scare me to death. but that was before God delivered me, setting me free from that paralyzing fear of anyone hearing my singing voice... now i simply don't care... i'm not entirely ready to be that worship leader yet, but God is still training me in the mean time...
which brings me to now. i recently read a book by Stephen Baldwin, titled The Unusual Suspect. he made several great points about the church being detached from society, not like we're better than them, but to the point that we aren't making any difference in the world. at least the western world, anyway. i know we are called to be 'in the world, not of the world,' and we are 'set apart by God for His purpose.' we have to live a life of 'living sacrifice, holy and acceptable before God.' this isn't the same thing as self-righteousness. this is having your eyes opened to the reality that is God; realizing that your life is not about your, that we were 'bought with a price,' that the function of the world is not to provide me with what i want. but the function of my life is to provide the world with what it needs; and that is the love of God. a love that can only really be experienced through a personal, living relationship with Jesus Christ.
When God set me free from the fear of singing, it also came at a price; at a personal cost to me. i can remember when it happened. it was as if God said to me, 'I set you free from this. Now do something with it.' God didn't call me to be a follower, but a leader. this means getting over my own flaws and insecurities about not being good enough. it means stepping out of my comfort zone, and really putting myself out there. God wants all of us to submit to His authority. not from fear, but from love. and in this love we will experience a freedom that all the glory of the world could never offer us. it is in this freedom that i now live, and continue to grow daily. not that i may boast, except in God, the One who set me free. i will continue on this path, and i will continue to be finding freedom. but this freedom can only be found when i completely lose myself to God. when i am completely submissive to His will, His calling on my life. and every one of us is called to this freedom. 'for God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.'
This is directed more to those of us who are now walking in freedom, instead of those who haven't yet found it. i'm referring to the Church. the organized Body of Christ. to those who claim the Name of Jesus, regardless of nationality, denomination, or past mistakes. we have done a terrible job, as a whole, in representing the Name of the God we serve. we have let our personal agendas, emotions, philosophies, greed, and simple laziness get in the way, thus negating any good Jesus might have done in His earthly ministry. how many times have we broken His heart, in His name, even?
it's time to make a change. God is raising up a new generation of hard-core, take-no-prisoners believers. and He will do this with or without our help. God doesn't need anything we can offer. He has everything at His disposal. but it is our duty, our obligation, to join Him in this. we are commanded to 'make disciples of all nations.' this isn't called the Great Suggestion, or the Great Idea If You Can Get Around To It... it's the Great Commission. it is a direct order from the throne of the King of the universe to each one of us. we have a job to do, but how are we doing it? are we even getting it done at all?
God is love. but are we? do we exhibit that love on a daily basis? can people tell from miles away that we are walking with Jesus? do we show it in our talk, our actions, our RE-actions? do people see Jesus when they look at us? shouldn't they? it's time for us to step it up, and stop living like the world owes us something. we have possession of the single greatest truth in the history of the universe. why would we not want to share it with everyone we meet? are we afraid they won't like us? are we afraid to hurt their feelings? they KILLED Jesus. of course they're not going to like us. we WILL hurt their feelings. the Word of God is offensive. it forces people to see themselves in the light of a holy God. and none of us can stand in that light, innocent. we are all sinners, doomed to death, and Hell. there, i said it... but the beauty of it is God's grace. it covers our sin. we no longer have to live in defeat, in fear. we are victorious; more than conquerors. that truth alone should set us free to give our lives to God's service. to share the Love that has so graciously saved us. we shouldn't worry about offending people or hurting their feelings. the Spirit of God will be the one doing that, not us. we are just to present the truth to them in a loving, godly way, and then follow through with what it calls us to. we must live a life of love. no one is coming to Christ through our hypocrisy. of course God will still love us and still use us even in our mistakes, but it makes it really hard on the people He is trying to reach. we need to get out of His way. He can take care of them just as well as He takes care of us.
that's not to say we should forget about them in their needs. We are His hands and His feet. We are the continuation of Christ's ministry on Earth. we must love as He loves, and give as He gives. we must live as He lives. it is a sacrifice. otherwise Jesus wouldn't have said 'take up your cross and follow me.' he would have said something like, 'get in your comfy new SUV and follow your GPS to where you think i want you to be.' but He was very explicit in His directions. and He lived it out as well. not only do we have the written instructions from His mouth, but we have a living example. he showed us how to live., but how many of us are really living it?
to be continued...
a: having significant and demonstrable bearing on the matter at hand
b : affording evidence tending to prove or disprove the matter at issue or under discussion
c : having social relevance
similar: crucial to a matter, having a striking appropriateness and pertinence, both to the point and opportune
one question constantly presenting itself to me is 'am i relevant?' i'm not asking this from a hopeless, depressed, nobody-loves-me state. those questions are, in themselves, irrelevant. there is no way to truly achieve a sense of identity, of meaning, outside of Christ. HE is the only thing/one who is ALWAYS relevant. we are lost and hopeless without His presence in our lives. But He has made a way for us to have a meaning and a purpose. to be relevant in this world... making a difference that matters now. a difference that will still matter in generations to come. most people who know me will probably agree with my saying that i've never been the most out-spoken, go-getter kind of guy. in fact, i'm usually the one chosen last, the last to raise my voice; and when i do speak, it's usually folllowed by a 'what?' or 'i can't hear you. talk louder.' and it could be for this very reason, although i'm quite sure there are many others, that i've been feeling such a burden on my heart lately as to the relevance i'm living.
as many of those close to me can attest, i have felt a strong calling into a ministry, particularly the worship leader/ music evangelistic sort. i've been feeling this way for the better part of a year now, so i know it's not a 'phase' sort of thing. most people also know that i'm not usually one to 'lead' anything, and especially in front of a crowd and a microphone... the thought of it used to scare me to death. but that was before God delivered me, setting me free from that paralyzing fear of anyone hearing my singing voice... now i simply don't care... i'm not entirely ready to be that worship leader yet, but God is still training me in the mean time...
which brings me to now. i recently read a book by Stephen Baldwin, titled The Unusual Suspect. he made several great points about the church being detached from society, not like we're better than them, but to the point that we aren't making any difference in the world. at least the western world, anyway. i know we are called to be 'in the world, not of the world,' and we are 'set apart by God for His purpose.' we have to live a life of 'living sacrifice, holy and acceptable before God.' this isn't the same thing as self-righteousness. this is having your eyes opened to the reality that is God; realizing that your life is not about your, that we were 'bought with a price,' that the function of the world is not to provide me with what i want. but the function of my life is to provide the world with what it needs; and that is the love of God. a love that can only really be experienced through a personal, living relationship with Jesus Christ.
When God set me free from the fear of singing, it also came at a price; at a personal cost to me. i can remember when it happened. it was as if God said to me, 'I set you free from this. Now do something with it.' God didn't call me to be a follower, but a leader. this means getting over my own flaws and insecurities about not being good enough. it means stepping out of my comfort zone, and really putting myself out there. God wants all of us to submit to His authority. not from fear, but from love. and in this love we will experience a freedom that all the glory of the world could never offer us. it is in this freedom that i now live, and continue to grow daily. not that i may boast, except in God, the One who set me free. i will continue on this path, and i will continue to be finding freedom. but this freedom can only be found when i completely lose myself to God. when i am completely submissive to His will, His calling on my life. and every one of us is called to this freedom. 'for God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.'
This is directed more to those of us who are now walking in freedom, instead of those who haven't yet found it. i'm referring to the Church. the organized Body of Christ. to those who claim the Name of Jesus, regardless of nationality, denomination, or past mistakes. we have done a terrible job, as a whole, in representing the Name of the God we serve. we have let our personal agendas, emotions, philosophies, greed, and simple laziness get in the way, thus negating any good Jesus might have done in His earthly ministry. how many times have we broken His heart, in His name, even?
it's time to make a change. God is raising up a new generation of hard-core, take-no-prisoners believers. and He will do this with or without our help. God doesn't need anything we can offer. He has everything at His disposal. but it is our duty, our obligation, to join Him in this. we are commanded to 'make disciples of all nations.' this isn't called the Great Suggestion, or the Great Idea If You Can Get Around To It... it's the Great Commission. it is a direct order from the throne of the King of the universe to each one of us. we have a job to do, but how are we doing it? are we even getting it done at all?
God is love. but are we? do we exhibit that love on a daily basis? can people tell from miles away that we are walking with Jesus? do we show it in our talk, our actions, our RE-actions? do people see Jesus when they look at us? shouldn't they? it's time for us to step it up, and stop living like the world owes us something. we have possession of the single greatest truth in the history of the universe. why would we not want to share it with everyone we meet? are we afraid they won't like us? are we afraid to hurt their feelings? they KILLED Jesus. of course they're not going to like us. we WILL hurt their feelings. the Word of God is offensive. it forces people to see themselves in the light of a holy God. and none of us can stand in that light, innocent. we are all sinners, doomed to death, and Hell. there, i said it... but the beauty of it is God's grace. it covers our sin. we no longer have to live in defeat, in fear. we are victorious; more than conquerors. that truth alone should set us free to give our lives to God's service. to share the Love that has so graciously saved us. we shouldn't worry about offending people or hurting their feelings. the Spirit of God will be the one doing that, not us. we are just to present the truth to them in a loving, godly way, and then follow through with what it calls us to. we must live a life of love. no one is coming to Christ through our hypocrisy. of course God will still love us and still use us even in our mistakes, but it makes it really hard on the people He is trying to reach. we need to get out of His way. He can take care of them just as well as He takes care of us.
that's not to say we should forget about them in their needs. We are His hands and His feet. We are the continuation of Christ's ministry on Earth. we must love as He loves, and give as He gives. we must live as He lives. it is a sacrifice. otherwise Jesus wouldn't have said 'take up your cross and follow me.' he would have said something like, 'get in your comfy new SUV and follow your GPS to where you think i want you to be.' but He was very explicit in His directions. and He lived it out as well. not only do we have the written instructions from His mouth, but we have a living example. he showed us how to live., but how many of us are really living it?
to be continued...
Friday, October 2, 2009
Revelation: 05.23.09 & 05.27.09
How small we are, and unworthy to stand before a holy God. I am totally and completely overwhelmed by the holiness surrounding me. Never before have I experienced so strongly the awesome presence of the Father. I cannot control myself, nor do I want to. Tears come easier to me than breathing. Realizing who I am and how utterly insignificant all my life and its complications really are has floored me. My eyes, spiritually speaking, have seen the glory of the Lord, and I am awestruck. My feeble attempts at putting this into words fall so short of anything that could remotely do it any justice. I try to cope the only way I know how; by crying out with my voice and my spirit to the God of all creation. "O praise Him. O praise Him. He is holy. He is holy."* Incomprehensible, this state I find myself in... and how true is that statement. For in all honestly, I truly am finding myself. finding the freedom that each one of us was meant to live out. The freedom that we are all called to respond to and receive. Not by our own merit or worth, for nothing we could ever hope to do would be worthy of receiving such a precious thing. The only way is to accept it as the free gift of a loving Father, who so selflessly gave us all the best He had to offer, and still continuously pours this love out on all of us. The challenge is, what are we going to do with it in return? Should we hoard it all for ourselves, hoping that God will pour out more for us, or that He has so much to spare that we don't need to share...? By no means, the only way to experience the fullness of this love is to share it with others. Those you love, obviously, but even the ones you don't love. We are to take this love to the extreme that we give it away freely even to those who hate us... This love covers a multitude of sins, and the essence of sin is selfishness. Basically, if we focus only on our selves, that is all we will ever have. But God has called us to love everyone, especially those who don't deserve it. Because, we are ultimately that person, and God has given us His love. It's the least we could do, and it's the most we can do... I have come to realize how the Lord loves me perfectly. This love is overwhelming, and mind-blowing, far above and beyond my limited imagination... Such simple words can be so profound. O praise Him; He is holy. Such a simple truth, but the weight of such a statement has forever changed my way of thinking, my attitude, and my worship. I can only respond with tears. My senses simply cannot contain, comprehend, or accurately express any of this. And I know this is only the beginning. I pray that God speaks through these words, that whoever reads them will be blessed in the same way that He has blessed me. Remember, love is an action; not a feeling... Let us really absorb this fact and apply it to our daily lives, that in everything we say and do, we may reflect God's love to everyone in our lives... Thank you, and God bless.
* "O Praise Him" by David Crowder
* "O Praise Him" by David Crowder
... an introduction
Most of you already know who I am, one way or another. Most of you know that I've been playing drums for about 17-thousand years; that I am a strong believer in God, though I make at least as many mistakes as everybody else. Those of you who really know me well know that God has been on the move in my life, especially in the last few months. He has really blessed me with so many wonderful friends, brothers and sisters, if you will. He has given numerous opportunities to actually do something for Him, instead of just wondering through life like most of us are doing. I'm in no way trying to bash anyone. We are each responsible for the lives we live, whether for ourselves, or for something greater than ourselves. My eyes have been opened to the Truth, and I can never again be satisfied with simply living my life, especially if I'm living it just for myself. For many years I was pretty much a hermit. I rarely got out, and when I did, I always seemed to be trapped in some sort of a shell. This was my comfort zone. I wasn't vulnerable inside my little bubble. It was like this musically, too. I felt safe and at home behind a set of drums, but anywhere else you could forget about. I was deathly afraid to ever sing in front of anyone. It was so bad that I wouldn't even sing above a whisper in my own home, if I thought for a moment that my neighbors were at home. I was so afraid that someone would hear me, that they would have something to use against me. Well, long story short, I surrendered everything in my life to God, including my fears and failures. That is all He asks from everyone of us. But since then, I have almost literally seen the hand of God moving in my life. He has been breaking apart my shell, my comfort zone, piece by piece, until there's hardly anything left of what used to paralyze me in fear. He is preparing me for something far greater than anything I could ever envision for myself. I have learned many infinitely valuable lessons in the past few months, lessons that I will continue building on for the next few decades, God willing. And God has placed on my heart a passion to share these lessons with others who might have never even considered themselves in need of anything. He who has ears to hear, let him hear. Some of the things I've learned, however are:
1. My life, though my own, is ultimately not about me at all. (2 Cor. 5:15)
2. Freedom can only be found in the presence of total surrender.
3. Everything in my life is to be done for the glory of God. (1 Cor. 10:31)
4. My life is to be a living sacrifice. (Romans 12:1)
5.This is a decision I must make every single day; to carry my cross for the glory of God. (Mark 8:34-35)
I must destroy my comfort zones in order to be or do anything that matters. This life is the only time we get to make a difference for God. Every single one of is called to be a minister, in one way or another. God has given each of us the talents we need to do His work in the world, and He has given us the passion and desire to see these things done. Net everyone is called to be a pastor or teacher. Some of us are called to be musicians or artists. But we are all called to something. There is much more to this life than being alive, and I thank God every day for this revelation. This is the essence of Finding Freedom. Yes it is a band of sorts, but more than that, it is a tool in the hands of God. It is a ministry to those who might not otherwise hear the Truth that is Christ. There is much power in music, but even the music is just another tool. The focus is on the Message that God loves each one of us, despite all the crap that we have done. Not one of us could ever deserve an ounce of God's love, but He still loves us, no matter what. I for one am no longer content to live this life in vain. I will take up my cross daily, and give all the glory to God, because who am I really to keep any of His honor for myself? I know this may be a lot to take in at one time, but the word needs to get out. I hope everyone can find some hope and truth in this message. If this reaches one person, it will be so worth it. May God receive all the glory. I am just one of His servants. I ask you not to look up to me, for I am merely a man, living by God's grace. Look to Jesus. He's the one I follow, and anything good I do is because He lives through me. Thank you all, and may God bless each one of you. I am finding freedom. Now, who's coming with me?
As Silver Refined: (A New Creation )i must be less - that You may become more
in Your holiness - i can't stand before You
i'm crying out - from my broken spirit
i lift my voice - oh Lord please hear it
why in the world would You ever want me - when i'm such a wicked man
how in the world could You ever love me - i just don't understand
what in the world would lead You to choose me - and make me a part of Your plan
how in the world do You plan to use me - just take me as i am
humble me Lord - this broken vessel
rebuild the pieces - into something beautiful
purify me - in Your holy fire
as silver refined - this my desire
why in the world would You ever want me - when i'm such a wicked man
how in the world could You ever love me - i just don't understand
what in the world is this forgiveness - after all i've done
mercy and grace You are my Father - today i've become Your son
as a new creation - i stand before You
You have made me worthy - and i will adore You
01.01.09 -
for me to be anything oh Lord
that You ask of me
from You i need everything oh Lord
that You have for me
You see my heart
You know my mind
nothing here is hidden from You
and i am finding freedom
when i lose myself in You
once again i find myself
lost in Your presence
covered by Your mercy
in a flood of grace
You know my faults
You've seen me fall
let me be found worthy of You
Lord i am finding freedom
when i lose myself in You
oh Lord You're my heart's desire
You're my everything
set my heart on fire - consume me
You are the Way the Truth and the Life
i am just a slave to You
but i am finding freedom
when i lose myself in You
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